Decision Making

What i've learnt today is, when you want to make a decision for yourself, make that decision by YOURSELF. Don't ask others for advice or so called "Words of Wisdom". They'll just give you bullshit. Although some may give good advice but when it comes to making a decision for yourself, it's better to make that decision by YOURSELF. For example, if person A ask you to do this job and you feel that you're not up to that standard to do that job, just say no. Even if person A insults you or does something to you, don't care abt person A cause person A can or may be wrong. Sometimes, even leaders cannot be trusted. They can ask you to be the "kambing korban" without you knowing. I guess that was what happened to me. But when it comes to making decisions for a team, it's better to bring your team leaders together to do some brainstorming. By doing this, many suggestions will come up and you can mix all the suggestions up and make one final decision.